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Attachment Based Relationship Tips
Looking to strengthen your relationship? Our blog offers expert relationship tips rooted in attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how to identify your attachment style, communicate more effectively, and foster emotional safety with your partner. From overcoming conflict to building deeper trust, our practical advice and tools, created by couples therapist Julie Menanno, are designed to help you move toward a secure and fulfilling connection. Dive in and start transforming your relationships today!
Unmet Childhood Attachment Needs: How Early Experiences Shape Adult Relationships
Many struggles in adult relationships trace back to unmet attachment needs from childhood. Explore how early emotional experiences shape your reactions, defenses, and patterns—and what healing can look like.
The Anatomy of a Trigger (and How to Do Something New)
Explore the anatomy of a trigger and how vulnerability can transform conflict into emotional safety and connection.
What Are The THREE Problems When You’re in a Fight With Your Partner?
Uncover the three layers of relationship conflicts—surface issues, unmet attachment needs, and underlying dynamics—and learn strategies for resolution.
In this meeting, Julie dives into the crucial role of emotional safety and communication during disagreements. She highlights how it's not the disagreement itself, but how couples handle it that truly matters. Learn how being open, curious, and validating each other's emotions can help maintain a safe space for constructive conversations.
Julie also explores how small arguments often mask deeper emotional needs, like wanting to feel heard or valued. She addresses how different attachment styles (anxious versus avoidant) can influence communication and encourages couples to better understand each other’s emotional needs.