Who We Are

At the height of COVID-19 Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC decided to start an Instagram account for her small therapy practice in Bozeman, Montana. Looking back, we are not sure if it was Scout, Julie’s negative cycle comic drawings, or the birds with pet cats that grew her account’s popularity. What we do know is that The Secure Relationship Instagram account has provided millions of people with hope and actionable advice for all of their relationships.

With help from Julie’s followers and field experts, The Secure Relationship has evolved into much more than an Instagram account. Julie carefully hired a handful of talented coaches across the country who are dedicated to her approach and the EFT model. Each coach brings a unique focus to the team which enhances our client care and allows us to see clients from all walks of life.

Julie’s “little book”, The Secure Relationship: Quick Tips, was self-published in 2021 and helps couples start conversations about their attachment needs and negative cycles. Her “big book”, Secure Love, was published by Simon and Schuster in January 2024! Secure Love is a deep dive into all things attachment and is available worldwide in many languages.

Julie continues her efforts to connect by offering regular live meetings via her Growing and Interacting Group. Members are able to join live on a bi-weekly basis for interactive discussions with each other and Julie. Our Healing Together Workshops are another opportunity for people to dig into their attachment styles with Julie.

We are happy you found us and hope that you are able to take advantage of all the resources we offer <3

“It’s emotional disconnection that destroys relationships, not fighting. Happy couples fight. The difference is that happy couples fight and find and find a way to turn back and connect again.” - Dr. Sue Johnson