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Attachment Based Relationship Tips

Looking to strengthen your relationship? Our blog offers expert relationship tips rooted in attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how to identify your attachment style, communicate more effectively, and foster emotional safety with your partner. From overcoming conflict to building deeper trust, our practical advice and tools, created by couples therapist Julie Menanno, are designed to help you move toward a secure and fulfilling connection. Dive in and start transforming your relationships today!

Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

What Is Vulnerability—and Why Does It Matter?

Vulnerability is the foundation of connection—and without it, relationships stay surface-level. But when you've learned to hide, overshare, or shut down, it can feel impossible to get it right. Here’s how to begin.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Met Attachment Needs = Secure Attachment

Secure attachment is built on a foundation of consistent emotional attunement and met needs. When both partners feel seen, valued, and safe, the relationship thrives.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Hope: 8 Ways to Grow Secure Attachment in Your Relationship

Secure attachment doesn’t just happen—it’s created moment by moment, through emotional safety, self-awareness, and commitment. Here are 8 hopeful and practical ways to build a stronger, more connected relationship.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Can You Have Both an Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Style?

Attachment styles can be confusing, but in most cases, people lean heavily toward one attachment style in their closest relationships. Learn why you might feel like you have both anxious and avoidant tendencies and what that really means.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Why Do Those with Anxious Attachment Do That?

Anxious attachment behaviors often stem from deep fears of abandonment. Learn why these behaviors feel safe and how to shift toward healthier relationship patterns.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Insecure Attachment Styles and How They Keep You Stuck

Anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles often keep partners stuck in negative cycles. Learn how to break free by improving communication, self-awareness, and emotional regulation.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

How Both Avoidant AND Anxious Partners Block Emotional Intimacy

Both avoidant and anxious partners block emotional intimacy in unique but equally intense ways. By understanding these dynamics, couples can begin to break the negative cycle and build a more secure, emotionally connected relationship.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Your “Window of Tolerance”

Your window of tolerance is your internal safe space for emotional balance. Learn how to find and stay in this space to improve your well-being, regulate emotions, and build healthier relationships.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

How to Navigate Hard Conversations with Your Partner

Hard conversations in relationships can be challenging, but with emotional regulation, empathy, and clear communication, you can create a foundation of safety and teamwork for problem-solving.

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Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Tips for Healing an Insecure Attachment

Learn how to heal an insecure attachment by improving communication, regulating emotions, and building a healthier sense of self.

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